Ever sabotage your own success? I have. Are you already off track or lost sight of your 2024 visions, goals, or resolutions? Why do we sabotage our own work, our own efforts? Why do we struggle within ourselves to do what must be done?
Are we not serving the right calling? Do we not have the right purpose? Are our visions, dreams, or goals the wrong ones? We fail to take the actions required to achieve these things and we struggle to make the changes required. Ever wonder why?
Most high achievers are "all or nothing" type thinkers, meaning we have to know that what we are doing is right and not wrong, effective and not wasteful...we always want to know the projected outcome before we do the work. Our power is in our momentum and our actions. But for us, we always want to know that it is the right path before we take it completely, before we commit to it wholeheartedly. We are so "all or nothing" that whenever doubt sets in our mind, we begin the cycle of questioning which brings on the doubt, which brings on the worry, which brings on the fear, which then paralyzes us from taking required actions.
No I don't mean paralyzes you like you couldn't take action, but as soon as your "all or nothing" mind picks up on the vibe of doubt...your actions shut down and you begin to justify them with the excuses and the thoughts and the ideas that then drive you crazy with even more doubt. The challenge for you is to keep from entering into doubt in the first place, to balance your "all or nothing" mind with patience and understanding.
You are on the right path...there is not a wrong path, you are aligned with your visions, goals, and dreams...you know what you want and you know what you are creating, and you know who you are serving and what you are giving. Just stick to it and....DECIDE, and then burn the boats. DECIDE and within the decision take your actions...not with the expectation of results, but with the focus of your decision. By focusing on the decision and not the expected results, you will remember why you made the commitment in the first place and by doing so, you energize your capacity to take the actions required!
Then take your daily actions that not only bring you power, but also move you towards your visions, dreams, and goals. LIVE the DECISION and the actions will follow, LIVE the DECISION and the doubt and worry will vanish, LIVE the DECISION and you will live with alignment and connection to your purpose.
Conclusion: Decide and live within your decisions not your expectations. By living within my decisions, I drop expectations of results and live aligned, in peace, and connected to my purpose.
Ray Gagnon - The CHAOS Coach
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